I sincerely think that honesty is the best policy. Best friends usually don’t hide things from each other, right? The longer it takes for your best friend to find out, the more negative the response she will have towards it. I think that you should convince your best friend to tell your other best friend and have them work it out. Feelings are feelings and they can’t be helped, so no one is to blame in this situation. Whatever happens, happens.
✓ Tuesday June 7th //My boyfriend’s ex hates me. At first she said she was happy for us and everything, and we got along. But then one day she just started being really mean and now she’s got all her friends helping her too. They keep leaving hate messages in my ask and bullying me whenever possible. I thought I could take it, but it’s becoming too much. Help me?
I think that confrontation, in your case, is necessary. Ask her if there is something that she has against you. Bullying is unnecessary, and you shouldn’t take anything that her or her friends do / say to heart.
❀ Tuesday April 26th //Oh, I’m sorry for this probably being extremely late since I haven’t checked this in the longest time.
If this even helps anymore, I think you should take a risk and tell him. You never know how things will work out if you don’t even try. At least hint that you’re sorta interested in him and try to see how he responds to that before you decide to tell him or not.
✓ Saturday April 9th //158. do girls really mind if a guy wears skinny jeans? CAUSE I LOVE SKINNY JEANS but im kinda wondering what the opposite sex thinks of it
I think its fine. I only mind when a guy’s jeans are tighter than mine. Looks hella weird.
❀ Wednesday July 14th //157. I’m sad because my boyfriend cheated on me with another girl & I’m still with him . Should I just leave him ?! I don’t know what to do anymore . I can’t let him go , I love him too much . =[
I think you should talk to him about it. I don’t think that cheating is okay in any case nor is it ever forgiveable, but that’s just me. I think you should just talk to him.
❀ Wednesday July 14th //156. I’m not seeking help, but I want you to hear me out. I think you’re a wonderful girl and all these guys hurting you are bitches.
You do have great qualities that a good guy would be looking for. You’re cuter than you think you are, you’re smarter that you think you are, you’re more athletic than you think you are. You are a better person in reality than that girl you see in the mirror.
I know you want the right guy, the good guy, and you’re tired of waiting. You might have to wait just a bit more, but he’s on his way, he’s coming as fast as he can.
Thanks. I’m a really insecure person & it’s hard for me to accept compliments at times, but thank you. Thank you so much. I know I could get a bit impatient at times, but I think that all of the waiting will be worth it in the end.
❀ Wednesday July 14th //153. what would you do if you liked your best friend? HELP
I think you should be straightforward & just tell him. Who knows? Maybe he likes you back but he’s holding back just like you are.
❀ Saturday May 15th //152. I want to kiss my boyfriend of say 3 weeks on the cheek, but I’m too shy, so is he. help?
Stop being shy? Like, sometime when you guys are alone just lean in to kiss him! Don’t be shy; he’s your boyfriend now.
❀ Thursday May 13th //